Joined In Grief

It's been nearly a month since John died.  I don't know if any of you are still following this blog.  I may keep it going for a while.  I suppose the title "John's Progress" is not exactly appropriate anymore.  However, I consider myself John's legacy and -- as such -- am keeping some sort of progress in his name ongoing.
I wanted to share that a dear friend (who John and I actually never met) has also passed away from this horrible, HORRIBLE disease known as esophageal cancer.  Sean Gilbert, the husband of a friend of my cousin Kathy, had to bid his wife and three sons goodbye on March 15.  Sean was diagnosed in late 2010; John on January 13, 2011.  Sean's wife, Julie, and I have maintained e-correspondence throughout our respective journeys.  My heart breaks for the Gilbert family as I know theirs does for me.  I would like to ask that you all keep them in your hearts and prayers...They, as do I, need as many of those as they can get.  Bless you for your friendship and support for me in these hard days of adjustment.  I -- along with the Gilberts -- are looking at an upcoming year of "firsts" that will be difficult to get through.  Julie, if you are reading this, we are ALL walking with you.  And my beloved John is welcoming your Sean.  We are all connected in sorrow and joy...My love and best wishes to all...And, of course, thank you...Nancy

A New Journey Begins

This Saturday is John's memorial service.  And while there are many knowns, there is a great unknown.  Mainly, what will my new journey be like?  One thing is certain:  John will forever remain a part of me.  It was John's wish that, should anyone like to make a memorial donation, the World Wildlife Fund was his choice.  I would like to add and addendum to that.
The care that both John and I received at Whatcom Hospice House was beyond words.  The entire staff -- from reception desk to volunteers to professional medical personnel -- are caring, talented individuals who make a terrible time in life livable.  I would like to ask that Whatcom Hospice House also be included in any memorial tribute any of you would like to make.  I've asked Hospice House that any funds donated in John's name be pooled together.  If enough is collected, a memorial placque will be added to the donor's/memorial wall with John's name on it.  I can't think of a more fitting tribute to one of the most courageous, truthful, kind, loving man I have or will ever know.  I love you John Grigsby.  And I know God and many people love you, too.
Thank you, may God bless you, and may John watch over us all...Nancy